No sour grapes…or milk <3

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I have already been to the grocery this morning, have dinner in the crock pot and need to be in my car and headed north in 15 minutes…20 if I want to grab a coffee on my way through the small town 8 miles north of here. 

And I do. 

I very much want to do that. 

So here is the thought o’the day.

I don’t know if I can credit my mom, my dad or both of them or some comedian my mom heard and retold the story enough that I thought it was hers. 

But she would laugh at the concept of the way we react to milk being possibly sour. 

The joke goes that someone takes a drink of milk and then hands the glass to someone they love saying, “I think this has gone bad. Taste it.”

At our house we were all like…yeah, no. I’m good. If you think it’s sour, let’s go with that as our truth. 

It occurred to me recently that a similar thing happens in my conversations. 

Someone does something kind of rude to me or hurts my feelings and my first response is to tell someone else what happened as if to get a second opinion on the validation of my feelings. 

I am not saying we don’t need to share our feelings with others, but asking them to taste the raw bitterness so we can feel justified in our assessment of what happened is not fair to that unsuspecting friend or family member. 

God is teaching me as I age, and hopefully gain some wisdom, that He is really the only one I should take the first full cup of sour milk to and ask what just happened. 

Evaluating the situation and processing my response in His presence FIRST is a much better plan. 

It seems when I take this approach, we either work things out in a holy space and I can leave it there, or He raises up the right friend at the right time in the right way so that with a right heart, I can share my struggle without excessively maligning or highlighting someone else’s error. 

Just a thought and now I must be on my way! 

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2 thoughts on “No sour grapes…or milk <3

  1. Boom! I was just reading your post outloud…as if I were imagining you speaking it out, like a Marco Polo post.
    Then, Boom, your last statement hit me just “right” and I couldn’t talk. Thank you Laura Jean for your honesty but also for your boldness. Please don’t stop writing. Let me know when you are either going to write your book or start a vlog. I strongly believe that ALL of your blog posts should be compiled into a book, but I also think it would be a blessing to have you record yourself reading them too. I will try to read this one aloud again. Thanks.

    1. You are so sweet. Thank you. This made me smile and tear up just a teeny bit imagining you trying to read it like me…<3

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